Validating Racial Battle Fatigue in Session
Therapists working with clients who experience racism face a critical question: how do you validate the profound exhaustion that comes from constant discrimination? This article explores practical strategies for recognizing and addressing racial battle fatigue in therapeutic settings. Drawing on insights from mental health experts, these approaches help create space for clients to process their experiences while finding moments of relief from the relentless toll of racism.
Acknowledge Crisis and Center Their Reality
I'm Joel Blackstock, the Clinical Director at Taproot Therapy Collective. I am white and CIS gendered, but I work with manky black clients in therapy. When a Black client presents with racial battle fatigue, the most effective micro-ritual I have is simply stating the elephant in the room immediately. A lot of people come in hesitating to bring up systemic problems because they have been conditioned to believe that acknowledging oppression is just having a "victim mindset" or "blaming." They are often testing the room to see if I am going to gaslight them or if their reality is too heavy for the session.
To validate them without pathologizing, I often say: "I feel comfortable saying that we are in a sinking cruise ship of a country. Some people are pretending it's a Disney cruise, but we're in a really bad situation and that affects lots of populations, especially the African American community."
You can feel the shift in the room immediately. It lets the client know that I am not pretending that everything is okay and that I am comfortable sitting with a diagnosis of society rather than a diagnosis of them. It signals that their reality is not "too much" for me.
From there, we can move into a realistic conversation about resilience. I often tell people that these systems are so big that we can't fix them in a therapy hour. I tell them that if these problems go all the way back to the Bronze Age, or if they appear in the Bible, then they are probably not going to go away in our lifetime. But that does not mean we can't become resilient. It is also hopeful because we know that people have been dealing with these things for a very long time and it's not just us or our generation. By acknowledging the problem is ancient and systemic, we stop trying to "fix" the world and start figuring out a healthy way through it together to make a life that works.
Best,
Joel Blackstock Taproot Therapy Collective

Affirm Exhaustion and Invite Ease
"You're fighting a fight that goes deeper than just your own experiences. It's systemic and generational. It makes sense that you're exhausted, and it's incredibly important that you rest." Oftentimes, after hearing this, I can see my clients physically exhale stress. Sometimes their body tenses up out of fear that their experiences would be minimized. When they hear that they're not overreacting, they're able to engage with more openness and a sense of safety.

Name Cumulative Racism and Legitimize Care
In session, name the pattern of repeated racism and its build up over time as real harm. Point out how small cuts and big blows add up across days, jobs, and spaces. Link the harm to structures, not just single moments, so blame does not land on the person targeted.
Treat the client’s story as evidence, not as a claim that must be proved. Reflect the grief, anger, and numbness that can follow long exposure. Say clearly that the harm is legitimate and deserves care, then invite the client to name one place it shows up today.
Recast Fatigue as Adaptive and Permit Recovery
Frame the deep tiredness as an adaptive response to ongoing threat cues. Explain that the mind and body work hard to scan for danger, which drains energy. Emphasize that this is not laziness, weakness, or a moral flaw.
Validate the need for rest as recovery, not retreat. Encourage gentle routines that refill energy without shame. Ask the client to choose one small rest practice to try before the next session.
Anchor Strength in Culture and Community
Lift up cultural strengths that have helped people endure and resist. Reflect pride in language, art, ritual, and shared humor that restore worth. Encourage safe community ties like affinity spaces, elders, and faith groups that protect against isolation.
Support practices that come from the client’s culture rather than trendy fixes. Name that collective care can hold what is too heavy for one person. Invite the client to pick one community touchpoint to visit or call this week.
Set Boundaries and Pair Action with Calm
Work together to set clear limits around harmful tasks, spaces, and talk. Create short scripts for saying no, seeking support, or filing concerns when needed. Plan advocacy steps that fit the client’s role, risk, and energy.
Pair action with steady healing habits like slow breathing, gentle movement, and time in nature. Revisit the plan often and adjust based on what helps. Choose one boundary to try and one healing habit to practice before the next meeting.
Link Racial Stress to Body Signals
Offer simple science that links racial stress to body changes over time. Describe how constant vigilance can speed up the nervous system and disturb sleep, focus, and digestion. Note that headaches, muscle pain, and irritability can reflect stress load, not a character issue.
Normalize checkups and care for both body and mind as part of healing. Invite tracking of triggers and body cues to spot patterns and wins. Suggest starting a brief daily note on stress, sleep, and symptoms to guide care.
