4 Lessons On Mindfulness from Psychologists to Live in the Moment
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4 Lessons On Mindfulness from Psychologists to Live in the Moment
In today's fast-paced world, mindfulness has become a crucial skill for maintaining mental well-being. This article presents valuable insights from psychologists on how to live in the moment and cultivate mindfulness in daily life. Discover expert-backed strategies to harness your attention, ground yourself using your senses, and reclaim your power by focusing on the present.
- Harness Your Attention for Present Living
- Use Five Senses to Ground Yourself
- Witness Your Mind Without Judgment
- Focus on Now to Reclaim Your Power
Harness Your Attention for Present Living
One of the main problems with modern life is that everyone is vying for your attention. It has become currency. It's exhausting, and if you're not careful, you'll be swept along by people grabbing your attention and pulling you from one place to another.
Your attention is your most valuable commodity, even more so than time. As Sam Harris puts it, you can waste time. Being in charge of where you place your attention means you are more present with your own life and therefore more present with other people and whatever it is that you're doing in that moment, whether that's work or free time.
You can build this skill up over time by meditating and by applying specific mindfulness practices to your daily routine. These are some of the ways that I help my clients use specific mindfulness tools in their everyday life.
You can practice focusing your attention whenever you're waiting for something. For example: the kettle to boil, for your emails to load, waiting in line for the bus. Simply follow your breath when you're in line at the supermarket. Or you can focus your attention on feeling grateful for this present moment or for someone that you love while you're 'on hold' on a call to the bank. These small practices help integrate a deeper capacity for presence in your life, which helps you to feel more connected to yourself and to life.
Life is short, and this is a crucial skill to learn. So if you're new to this, the best time to start is now.
Kate Greenslade
Certified Mindfulness Coach and Founder, The Women Entrepreneurs Group
Use Five Senses to Ground Yourself
I once learned from a psychologist that mindfulness is like shining a flashlight on our present moment: it helps us notice what's happening right now instead of getting lost in worries about the past or future. In one session, she guided me through a simple exercise called the "five senses." I closed my eyes, named five sounds I could hear, four things I could feel, three things I could smell, two things I could taste, and one thing I could see when I opened my eyes. This gentle focus reminded me how much richer and calmer my experience can be when I tune in to the tiny details around me.
Since then, I've woven mindfulness into my everyday life in small, practical ways. Each morning, before jumping out of bed, I pause for a minute to feel the weight of the covers, the rise and fall of my breath, and the warmth of the sunlight on my skin. When I eat lunch, I put my phone aside and take time to taste each bite, noticing textures and flavors. If stress strikes during the day, I close my eyes for thirty seconds and take three deep breaths, paying attention to how my chest and belly expand and contract. These little moments of presence help me stay grounded, reduce stress, and really savor the simple joys around me.
I often invite my friends and family to try the same simple exercises I use, turning them into fun, low-pressure moments together. For example, when we meet for coffee, I'll suggest a quick "five senses" break before we start catching up. I guide them to look around and name four things they see, three things they hear, two things they feel, and one thing they smell. It only takes a minute, but people often tell me they feel more relaxed and clear-headed afterward. I keep it light—no special equipment or long explanations—so it feels more like a game than therapy.
At home, I leave gentle reminders around: a sticky note on the fridge reads "Breathe in 3... Breathe out 3," and a small card on my desk says "What can you taste right now?" When someone spots these, I explain, "Oh, that's just my little mindfulness prompt—want to try it?" Often, they do, and we share a laugh about how difficult it is to notice our breath when life feels busy. I also model kindness to myself out loud ("I'm proud of finishing that project!"), hoping they'll hear and try it too. Over time, these tiny, playful invitations help my loved ones discover how present moments can bring calm, boost confidence, and strengthen our connections.
Witness Your Mind Without Judgment
One of the most powerful lessons I've learned from working alongside psychologists—both as a clinician and as a student of life—is that mindfulness isn't about silencing the mind; it's about witnessing it without judgment. That simple truth changed everything for me.
I used to be caught in the cycle of always doing—building, planning, fixing. But it wasn't until I slowed down, especially during a wellness retreat I attended years ago, that I realized how disconnected I had become from simply being. Sitting in silence, breathing in rhythm with nature, I understood what it meant to be present—not just for patients, but for myself.
Since then, mindfulness has become the anchor of my daily life. I start most mornings with stillness—just 10 minutes of intentional breath and gratitude before the chaos of the day begins. I also integrate mindfulness into my sessions with patients, using it as a tool for emotional regulation, trauma processing, and nervous system healing.
Mindfulness isn't something I "check off" anymore—it's how I realign with purpose, especially in the noise of modern psychiatry. It reminds me, every day, that healing happens in the now—not in the diagnosis, the prescription, or the next big breakthrough, but in the presence we bring to ourselves and each other.
Focus on Now to Reclaim Your Power
One thing I have learned about mindfulness as a therapist who is also in therapy is that depression makes us focus on the past, and anxiety makes us focus on the future. We often ruminate because it makes us feel like we have a sense of control.
However, where our true power lies is in the present moment. We only have control of the here and now, and that is why mindfulness is so incredible; it connects us to our power and gives us a sense that we have agency over ourselves and the outcome of our lives.
