3-Minute Urge Surfing for Doomscrolling
Doomscrolling disrupts sleep and drains mental energy, but breaking the cycle doesn't require willpower alone. This article presents practical urge surfing techniques that help manage the compulsion to endlessly scroll through negative news. Drawing on insights from mental health experts, these four simple strategies take just three minutes to implement and can help reclaim control over nighttime phone habits.
Ride the Wave, Settle Into Sleep
In my practice, I teach a simple 3-minute urge-surfing technique that people can perform in bed without needing to unlock their phone. The idea is to simply ride the urge without acting on it.
I teach clients this script: Notice the urge to grab your phone. Label it silently: 'This is an urge, not a command.' Take five slow breaths, exhale slowly. Now, notice your body. Where do you feel the urge? Let it come and go like a wave for 60 seconds. You don't need to do anything.
After this, we use the grounding technique, noticing the sensation of the mattress, the feeling of the blanket on top and the sensation of breathing.
This method is effective because urges come and go very quickly if they're not acted on. Some of my clients say they fall asleep faster and wake up with less mental fog. Some have reported improved morning mood and less self-criticism the next day, which really helps them stay confident in their ability to pause instead of react.

Choose Gentle Breath, Honor Needed Rest
When the urge to doomscroll hits at night, I coach clients to quietly place one hand on their chest, close their eyes, and focus on 15 slow breaths while simply noticing the urge--no judgment, just awareness. I'll quietly say to myself, 'I notice the pull, but I choose rest for myself right now.' One client shared with me that she woke up feeling genuinely rested for the first time in weeks, and she described a lightness in her mood throughout the next morning--like she'd finally chosen self-kindness over restless habit. The trick is making this small ritual a nightly anchor, and gently reminding yourself that you deserve rest as much as you deserve information.
Name Subtle Senses, Regain Real Choice
When the urge to scroll shows up in bed, I do a practice that helps me slow down and orient myself to my actual situation, rather than wrestling with an urge as powerful as doom scrolling. Without moving, gently orient to the present by naming three things you feel, two sounds you hear, and one smell or taste, even if what you notice is subtle or neutral. Minds wander, that's normal, so each time you drift just return to "three things I feel." To keep this sustainable, make a simple agreement with yourself: don't look at your phone for three minutes and then check in. If you still want to scroll, you can. This pause isn't about deprivation; it's about giving your body time to settle so choice becomes possible again. By grounding attention without novelty or stimulation, you interrupt the compulsive loop that scrolling thrives on, often finding the urge has softened before the three minutes are up. The next day, especially if you're able to fall back asleep and avoid the doomscrolling, I find that I feel more rested and more agency--finally I've wrested some self-control back from my phone.

Use 4-4-4 Counts, See Urges Fade
As CTO of Cerevity, an online concierge therapy platform for high-achievers battling burnout and anxiety, I've shared our 3-minute urge surfing protocol with clients to combat late-night doomscrolling in bed—without touching the phone. It helps ride out the impulse, improving sleep and next-day mood.
Protocol:
Lie still, eyes closed. Acknowledge the urge without judging (30 seconds).
Breathe deeply: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold 4, exhale 4 (1 minute, repeat 4-5 times).
Visualize the urge as a wave rising, peaking, and fading; label thoughts neutrally like "scrolling thought" (1 minute).
Affirm gently: "This urge will pass; I choose rest now" (30 seconds).
Easy go-to reference script for therapists: "Feel the itch to grab your phone and scroll—it's pulling strong, like a wave building. Inhale... hold... exhale. The wave crests now, intense but temporary. It's starting to recede, flowing away. Your body sinks heavier into the bed; peace returns. Sleep is here."
Observed change: A client, a busy executive, reported falling asleep faster (within 15 minutes vs. hours), achieving 7+ hours of uninterrupted sleep, and waking with lower anxiety, sharper focus, and a more positive mood—reducing burnout risk.
Advice: Practice nightly to build resilience. Integrate it into routines for any impulse control, like work stress. At Cerevity, we pair this with therapist-guided sessions for lasting impact.


